Pre-Pregnancy-Nuptial Contracts Anyone?

Are you familiar with a prenuptial agreement? In this day and age I assume most of us have some knowledge of this contract needed prior to marriage, in order to safeguard assets. Well may I be the first (I think) to propose a pre-pregnancy-nuptial agreement? Prior to pregnancy while the couple is in a happy place, plan for what would happen if the relationship dissolves. This contract could potentially protect future children from going through the pain of an absentee parent. Having consequences within the contract that are individualized may make a person think twice before being irresponsible. Not saying it will work 100% of the time but it is something to keep in mind. Some questions to ask are...who would be the primary care provider? How may hours will be shared? What happens if someone moves out of state? Will you both need to attend Doctor appointments? Raising children is so much to think about and it helps to give a realistic thought process prior to splitting atoms or sharing DNA ;)

Let us really think about it, what does greater damage, walking away from children or walking away from materials? We can recover from the loss of our home and bank accounts being at an all time low...I am not saying it's easy... but with the right mindset a person can come back having more gains in what was lost. What do you tell a child in mourning who has a mother/father that is not dead but he or she refuses to participate in sharing the ability to respond to being a "pair"rent(parent). The word PAIR is within that word for a reason, no it is not the exact spelling but within the creation of a child it takes two! Hence the word pair. Now if 1/2 of this pair is selfish what do u do? Court is not always a win/win situation. I say before you allow him or her to get caught up in the moment of lust or love...create a prepregnancynuptial. It would spare some of the ugly that comes in a break-up and it is a preventative measure. Some may read this and take heed, others may say it is a good idea but it's too much work...I say our world is evolving and it is time to be innovative in our problems surrounding families. The choice is yours!!!

Sabiya Amina

Our Future is Within Our Seeds of Today

It amazes me how some people in our world have little to no tolerance or zero patience for children. I am not saying be an ambassador for all children, however I need us to comprehend a few things.
Everyone must go through childhood! Seems like the creator of all the worlds deemed it special enough for ALL of us (that have the opportunity to make it to adulthood) go through it. Also, every child you see shapes our future. Children are our future leaders and followers of this life movement we have collectively entered. Have reverence for them and when on planes and you see a baby...try not to sigh because you can't sleep due to crying disturbances. Make sure you speak highly of them or not at all. Pour into the goodness of creating this world into a better place by assisting babies, children, and teens. Even if you just start with the ones in your family!

Sad part is some of you will create patience to deal with grown people in your life that you don't like for a check, monetary funds or even just because habitual affection is needed. Do not be that parent or guardian that gives all your good energy for a job you don't like, a man you can't stand just to come home and take out frustrations on your children or the children of others.  It is not fair to them that you have allowed the outside world to tax you and give them left over love/energy. Be mindful of your childhood and how you had or wished for great childhood experiences. Attempt to assist one youth and guide them in a positive direction or just listen to them. Nowadays children have adult stress, so know that they are little people and do your best to help them navigate this world we live in.

Signing off

Sabiya Amina...your child advocate!

Mind Sects

Tha art-of-sex is a form of prayer
we commune, communicating absent of words, our deepest thoughts

Be mindful what you conjure up when between legs...
cum with a high offering
a temple within loves bed

 

Just Different

He leaves the door cracked for most
it creates curiosity,
fe...lion's rub against his ego not hesitating to enter.

all they need is sum
sumthing odd about this one cat
she is curious but knows better

she will need more than getting wetter
no locked up love
no dangled strings

He can be free to leave his door partially open
yet once she enters
he will know how she differs

different doesn't mean special, just means different

Capture The Time

We are given time on earth together,
what will you do with yours?

Can you love more and fuss less?
  Are you willing to overlook minor mess-ups and extend 4giveness hugs? 
    Will you inJOY the sunset just like snow falls?

Being present is a choice and gift,
Today some1 lost a loved one...
Capture the time shared so it will not be missed.

Rise Up

I fell apart somewhere back there...pieces of my soul scattered about in back alleys
inside expensive trucks, laced with materials.
I crushed rose bushes and broke my favorite shades.
I'm not in the mood for u-turns or doubling back.

All I do is continue down liberation road, make a right turn on healers way
and walk by the "Press-On" nail shop.
No need for pedi or mini cures...I'm good.
Sometimes falling apart is exactly what needs to take place for transformation to occur...

Rise Up broken pieces and come back to me renewed!